Listening to Opinions

P.S: There might be some 'logical fallacies' in this post, or you might feel that there are a lot of missing parts. I apologize for not being able to organize my thoughts properly because I have no time to do so. I just want to write what's on my mind these days.

Have you ever wondered how weird this world is? Oh no, not the world as a creature, but the world as a society.

Nothing in this world is certain. There are always two sides of a coin, there are always various opinions.

At the age of 21, I realized that if there are two poles of something, no pole is better than another. It is also no good to follow one pole very extremely. We need balance.

For example,

Some people say that we should not listen to other's opinions because they do not matter. We know how to live our own lives.

But, it is not good if we do not consider other's feedback. Feedback might be important for our improvement and to remind ourselves that we don't live alone in this world. Sometimes, what we do can affect others, and we need to consider their welfare too. People's opinions also help us to see what we lack, what we're good at, and also what we're not good at. It is beneficial for understanding ourselves.

However, too often, people's opinion can also be a hindrance to our growth and improvement. If we want to achieve something, people might say it is impossible. This kind of opinion might stop us from working towards our big goals. Sometimes, paying too much attention to other's opinions will only make us try to satisfy them. However, it is something that we will never be able to do. It is impossible to please everyone. While we are too busy trying to please them, we forget what we actually want to do, for the sake of our future, for our lives.

This is just one of the examples, that really happened to me, or to people around me. I actually do not know what this post's objective is, but I always wanted to pour these thoughts into a writing. 

Eventually, I need to hold the belief that everyone will say a thing about what we do, but as long as we do everything to please Him, nothing else matters.