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Unconditional Positive (Self-)Regard

Acceptance is what makes someone feel loved and valued. When you can accept someone, when you can 'love' someone unconditionally, you help him* to love himself unconditionally, too. You help him realize that everything is not as perfect as his ideal condition. You help him realize that when he fails, everything is still going to be okay. You help him realize that failing at something is not the end of his life.

Thursday evening, December 17, 2015.
I realize that I should be more grateful for everything that I've had, done, or gotten. I am a human which means I will never be perfect. I will never get everything in this world. I should be grateful for what I am now. I should be thankful that I am actually living better than someone else in this world. I have complete family, I have supportive parents, I have friends, I have another significant person in my life, which always stay here, which always accept me the way I am now. I need to remind myself more and more, that I have something that anyone else doesn't. Even if somebody in this world also happens to have something in common with me, just deal with it. Every person is unique. I have unique combination which is not included in someone else's chromosomes. I should be aware that nobody is perfect. But in spite of the imperfectness, he or she will always be meaningful.

*it doesn't necessarily mean a guy. it's just a pronoun. it can be anyone, a guy or a girl.
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